ਪਉੜੀ ੧੯
paurree 19
ਪਿਉ ਦਾਦਾ ਪੜਦਾਦਿਅਹੁਂ ਪੁਤ ਪੋਤਾ ਪੜਪੋਤਾ ਨਤਾ ।
piau daadaa parradaadiahun put potaa parrapotaa nataa |
From father, grand father, great grand father are born son, grand son,great grand son respectively and from great grand son is born simply a relative (natte, having no specific relational name).
ਮਾਂ ਦਾਦੀ ਪੜਦਾਦੀਅਹੁਂ ਫੁਫੀ ਭੈਣ ਧੀਅ ਸਣਖਤਾ ।
maan daadee parradaadeeahun fufee bhain dheea sanakhataa |
The relationship of mother, grand mother, greatgrand mother, father's sister, sister, daughter, and daughter-in-law is also respected.
ਨਾਨਾ ਨਾਨੀ ਆਖੀਐ ਪੜਨਾਨਾ ਪੜਨਾਨੀ ਪਤਾ ।
naanaa naanee aakheeai parranaanaa parranaanee pataa |
Maternal grand father and mother and maternal great grand father and mother are also known.
ਤਾਇਆ ਚਾਚਾ ਜਾਣੀਐ ਤਾਈ ਚਾਚੀ ਮਾਇਆ ਮਤਾ ।
taaeaa chaachaa jaaneeai taaee chaachee maaeaa mataa |
Father's elder brother (Taiya) younger brother (chachc7a, their wives (tayi, chachi)et al. also remain absorbed in wordly affairs (maya).
ਮਾਮੇ ਤੈ ਮਾਮਾਣੀਆਂ ਮਾਸੀ ਮਾਸੜ ਦੈ ਰੰਗ ਰਤਾ ।
maame tai maamaaneean maasee maasarr dai rang rataa |
Mama, mann- (mother's brother and his wife), mast; masa; (mother's sister and her husband), all look dyed in their own colours.
ਮਾਸੜ ਫੁਫੜ ਸਾਕ ਸਭ ਸਹੁਰਾ ਸਸ ਸਾਲੀ ਸਾਲਤਾ ।
maasarr fufarr saak sabh sahuraa sas saalee saalataa |
Masar, phuphet (mother's sister's husband and father's sister's husband respectively), father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law (sali) and brother-in-law (sala) are also close.
ਤਾਏਰ ਪਿਤੀਏਰ ਮੇਲੁ ਮਿਲਿ ਮਉਲੇਰ ਫੁਫੇਰ ਅਵਤਾ ।
taaer piteer mel mil mauler fufer avataa |
The relationship of chacha's-in-law and those of the mama-in-law and phaphd-in-law are known as inconvenient relations.
ਸਾਢੂ ਕੁੜਮੁ ਕੁਟੰਬ ਸਭ ਨਦੀ ਨਾਵ ਸੰਜੋਗ ਨਿਸਤਾ ।
saadtoo kurram kuttanb sabh nadee naav sanjog nisataa |
The relationship of sister-in-law's husband (Sandhi) and father-in-law of your daughter or son (Kuram) are momentary and fake like those passengers of a boat sitting in a group.
ਸਚਾ ਸਾਕ ਨ ਵਿਛੜੈ ਸਾਧਸੰਗਤਿ ਗੁਰਭਾਈ ਭਤਾ ।
sachaa saak na vichharrai saadhasangat gurabhaaee bhataa |
The true relationship is with those brothers who meet in the holy congregation.They never get separated.
ਭੋਗ ਭੁਗਤਿ ਵਿਚਿ ਜੋਗ ਜੁਗਤਾ ।੧੯।
bhog bhugat vich jog jugataa |19|
Through the holy congregation, the gurmukhs learn the technique of renunciation amidst enjoyments.
ਪਉੜੀ ੨੦
paurree 20